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Entrepreneurs´s Journal
May
28, 2003
An Informed
Decision
By
Emily McHugh
I
am sure I am not alone in having
the occasional dilemma of having
to make a hard decision. It
is safe to say that the decisions
oftentimes confronting entrepreneurs
are rarely easy ones. Whats
an entrepreneur to do? On a
daily basis we are bombarded
with choices that must be made
and fast. Especially difficult
are the choices that one cannot
go back on the "irrevocable"
decision.
Always
reserve the right to change
your mind, even if you are not
supposed to. When I was in business
school, the career counselors
strongly urged and advised students
not to rescind on job offers
they had received because it
would reflect a certain level
of, shall we say, flakiness.
Of course, as students, we do
not want to commit any career
faux pas, so we just accept
these decrees as infallible
truths. In hindsight, this was
not necessarily the best advice,
why should one commit to something
that will bring future misery
and discontent?! It is better
to change your mind, than to
regret a choice for ever.
Not
too long ago, I found myself
in a decision-making jam. I
had just submitted my first
government bid and realized
I needed to adjust my quote.
After a few hours of tormenting
myself about what to do, it
dawned on me as to what was
the true issue. I was afraid
to face what I really wanted;
not just the idea of having
to contact the contract specialist.
Once I did, I realized that
it was not so hard after all,
and if you are honest and upfront
everything works out fine despite
initial fears. (Take away: read
and understand your government
contract THOROUGHLY before signing
and never rush; also get help
from your local Procurement
Technical Assistance Center
to help complete the bid).
In
order to avoid decision meltdown,
various mental rules of thumb
should be in place to serve
as a guide or at least a benchmark
to help in the decision process.
We may not always have the benefit
of knowing all the vital information
beforehand in order to make
an informed decision, but instead
of capitulating to decision-making
defeat, make sure you have at
least tried to get the information
necessary. Ask the questions
and get as many answers upfront
as possible. Think about all
the things you would ideally
like to know to make the best
possible decision. List what
you do know and then what you
do not. If you do not have enough
information to be comfortable
with your decision, then wait
until you do. Yes, you ultimately
will have to decide on something,
but you will be more confident
with your choice with better
preparation.
The
other brain-wracking part of
making a decision is the sheer
loneliness the entrepreneur
often feels in the process.
Our instinct tells us to find
someone who in essence can make
the decision for us or at least
talk us into a decision, anything
but to decide alone. Resist
this urge. Before reaching out
for everybody elses opinion,
take the time to determine your
own. The first question to answer
is "what do I really want?"
Once you know the answer to
this, then you can figure out
the rest. Most of the time we
automatically and erroneously
assume that our ideal is not
possible, so we do not even
bother to ask, or inquire. This
is indeed a pity, because as
the saying goes, you dont
get what you deserve, but what
you negotiate, or ask for. Since
there are not too many silver
platters being passed around
the party of life, we have to
be more assertive than we often
realize. Remember, it is not
a crime to ask for what you
want. Ask and ye shall receive
.
Divine inspiration is a definite
prerequisite to inform a sound
decision, so dont forget
to pray.

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